- The relationship itself is a separate entity.
- How are you nurturing it?
- What would you like to get out of it?
How would you like a relationship to be: supportive? creative? funny? loving? …
When I talk about a relationship, I don’t mean only a romantic relationship. It could also be a relationship with a friend, colleague, parent, child … and so on.
If you think of your own relationships, they are not all the same … aren’t they? You bring different feelings and behaviors to each relationship, which make it unique! It’s not you, it’s not the other, it’s something more than you two … it’s a totally unique entity!
How are you nurturing this unique entity, your relationship, to still keep … over time … the characteristics you want?